Determinism

Determinism is both true and false. 

You are affected by everything else. You are also a part of everything. That's why it is far more valuable to identify with everything. Know your place and do what speaks to you. That is not a relationship society should decide. Leave it to nature and everything will fall into place. Within the embrace, you will feel that everything is falling together rather than apart within chaos and order. Falling is a part of the process. That's the level of trust you must have. 

That is why we call it Falling in Love.